We all struggle with self confidence and feeling we are worthy of our dream lives. This tends to stem from the concept that we are not enough because of things we have been told throughout our childhood. Well no more! We are older, wiser and able to undo our childhood trauma - today. Here are five reasons you are beautiful and capable of anything.
1. You have gotten yourself to where you are today, despite the obstacles you have run into.
No matter what your life path has been thus far, you have made it to this point today. It's easy to become wrapped up in our shortcomings and what we have failed to accomplish. However, you're still here aren't you? You are existing, reading this blog post and that is more than enough. You've lived past the trauma, you've improved yourself, you removed yourself out of that toxic relationship, and you have come out stronger because of it. Congrats love, you did it!
2. You can feel
I know right, it seems pretty basic. But it's true, regardless of if you feel happy or sad, you can still feel and experience. That in and of itself is an accomplishment. The ability to feel and share your feelings is one of the greatest blessings in this life - it means you are human. You are here to feel, to learn and to grow. So whether you feel on top of the world or down in the dumps, the fact that you are feeling means you are the on the right path to accomplishing your life's lesson.
3. You've faced fears - big or small
Fears are insane, but you know what? You've faced them love. Whether it was finally sucking it up and catching that spider, or finally quitting your 9-5 and starting your own business, you took the leap and have begun to soar. Facing your fears is a huge accomplishment - after all, they say that fear is the death of growth. It is natural to fear what we don't know, but those places of fear are usually what catapults us into the most growth and evolution. Keep fighting those fears and keep accomplishing those goals - no matter how big or small. You've got this!
4. You are passionate about something
Your passion is what keeps you going. No matter where you are in life you are passionate about something. Anything from Music, Business, Fashion, Knitting... it doesn't matter your passion is what sparks a fire in you and that is a beautiful thing.
5. You're Sexy!
Ok, I know what you're thinking. I'm sexy... umm what do you mean. But stop that negative thought train that just 'choo chooed' into town and hear me out for a second. You are sexy, period. You have a quality, whether physical or mental, that is attractive and valued by you and others. Own that quality. Your physical appearance doesn't equal your worth, how you make others feel does. Regardless of how you look, you are sexy and you inspire other people - don't forget it.
Above all else, you are capable and beautiful. Don't doubt yourself, you have so many beautiful and amazing things about you. Now go tackle that day.